Tales of the Lockdown ….. Episode 7

Life in ‘Lockdown’ continues to be ‘different’ for us in The Ridwares WI.  We still can’t meet up as a group, but are finding ways of keeping in touch as well as helping our community.

Happy Birthday to Liz Humble, Anna McCallum, Meryl Mattey, Chris Lowries, Mary Meddings, Jean Hodgskiss, Wendy Thomas and Yvonne Banks! Congratulations to Clare and Martin Brown who celebrated their Ruby Wedding anniversary on Sunday and also to Anthea and Ivan Smith on the birth of their new great granddaughter – Ada.

The BKV planters are all growing nicely – as is our WI heart shaped flower bed.  Thanks to Deb Wilson & Yvonne Higgins for their weeding – much appreciated!

Jude and Angela have been busy knitting new born baby hats which have now been passed on to Good Hope, New Cross and Leicester hospitals.  The maternity units are very appreciative.  Karen has also received, and passed on, a bag of gorgeous cardigans, hats and little socks for premature babies, donated by a lady who runs the craft club in the village.  Thank you to all of you!

Remember the Hygiene Box initiative that we started before Lockdown?  Well, we couldn’t let what we had already collected go to waste, so Karen made a request on Facebook for any further donations – and was inundated!  Ann Batchelor made 60 beautiful toiletry bags for us, which have been duly filled and taken to the Hygiene Bank where they will be distributed to those in need.  Thank you Anne, and to everyone who donated toiletries.  This story was picked up by the Staffordshirre Federation and they have given us a mention in the latest SFWI newsletter – The Ridwares WI has been referred to as “Community Champions”.  Well done ladies!!

As for keeping in touch with eachother, well, we all received a ‘Hug in a Bag’ – in lieu of a real hug & meeting up in person.  Particular thanks to Karen & Alan for delivering the vast majority of these to all the members – the Sat Nav certainly had it’s work cut out navigating the roads & by-ways of rural Staffordshire!  Karen commented that it made her appreciate just how far some of our ladies travel to get to our meetings & events, and how lovely it was to actually have a (socially distanced) catch-up with so many members in person.  These ‘Hugs’ were very well received & much appreciated by all.

As to meeting up in person, things are still uncertain…. but we will keep you informed.  Until then,

Stay Safe – Be Kind – Kia Kaha  (Stay Strong)

 

 

 

Tales of the Lockdown …. Episode 6

Well,  the Best Kept Village Competition for 2020 may have been cancelled, but when the plants are already ordered, what do you do??????  The simple answer is ‘PLANT’ !.. and that is exactly what some of The Ridwares WI ladies did, together with other villagers, on Saturday morning, 30th May.  What a lovely way to spend the morning in the sunshine.

The colour theme for the planting around the village hall is ‘red, white & blue’.  We might be ‘late’ for the ‘VE 75’ celebrations, but the flowers should be flourishing & looking their best for the ‘VJ 75’ commemorations in August.

Thanks again to Kate Britt for planting up the WI heart shaped flower bed, to Alan & Karen for ordering & collecting the plants, the BKV Committee for keeping the inspiration going, & to the Parish Council for their financial support.

So it’s not just the planters that are looking good…  lots of ladies are enjoying the fruits of their labours in their back gardens.  How wonderful that we can now meet up outside with a few friends and enjoy a coffee (or glass of wine) together!  Angela has got the paddling pool out, but has only got as far as dipping her toes in.  Sue has been keeping fit virtually – & still finding time for sewing.  Betty hopes to move back to her cottage very soon following the flood which devastated her home – although we’re not sure how Meryl will feel about giving back her cat!!

A few members have celebrated LOCKDOWN birthdays, including Karen Parsons, Jan Fisher, Clare Brown, Tina Gough and June Ewing.  Happy birthday to you all!

Karen is still sending out newsy emails & says: “It was lovely to see Margaret Sawyer the other day and we had a chat on the doorstep, I’m pleased to say she is doing well and is keeping up to date with news on Facebook and on the internet. Joyce still asks about you all and misses all her visits from friends and family but she sends her best wishes to you all.”   And the challenges keep coming – collect those pebbles for World Kindness Day in November!

Sadly, times are not getting brighter for everyone & we send our sincere condolences to Jo Gough on the sad passing of Bernard.  A lovely man who will be missed by a huge number of people.  Our thoughts & prayers are with Jo & her family.

Tales of the Lockdown … Episode 4

VE75 Day… How was yours?

Well, for many ladies in the Ridwares WI, & their friends & neighbours, the celebrations on Friday 8th May were very different to what had been planned & talked about.  True to form, a great day was had by all – & homes, streets & the village as a whole, looked wonderful!

Meryl & Wendy decorated the trees outside the village hall with strips of red, white & blue knitting.  Karen & Alan put up a seemingly endless supply of bunting around Oaklands Close, as did most of the residents there!  It was a sea of red, white & blue! Thanks also to Wendy for the Union Jack by the oak tree itself.

Friends & neighbours brought out picnics, chairs, tables, glasses & wine/beer/prosecco (whatever tipple caught their fancy) onto their drives & front gardens & settled down to enjoy the afternoon, celebrating & commemorating ‘Victory in Europe’ 75 years ago.

The afternoon began with The Last Post, followed by Churchill’s speech… & then the music began…  A good sing-a-long followed.  Thanks to Ashley & the Chadwick Arms for organising the broadcast & to Alan for sorting out loud speakers in Oaklands Close & providing the song sheets!

Cake was shared  – with much fun & laughter… & yes, social distancing was observed!

 

 

 

Those in the Oaklands,  were even visited by the Police… & the Land Army ….

 

 

 

 

The sun stayed out & the weather was warm – most unlike a British Bank Holiday! – so people just stayed outside & enjoyed themselves ….  What a wonderful atmosphere!

This continued into the evening when Keith Vernon had organised a sing-a-long in Oaklands Close.  Song sheets were again provided & sound filled the street!  The only thing missing from a traditional Cockney celebration (according to Gaye) was a conga & dancing – both unable to happen because of social distancing…..

Kath Parson describes her family celebrations: “We had a lovely VE day celebration, Mum & I made a big banner using an old sheet and some permanent coloured pens. We did this on the kitchen table…. later I found lots of coloured squiggles on the surface of the table…so an hours furious cleaning was the order of the day!  The banner says ’Thank you to our WW2 Heroes,” Kent hung this up outside their bedroom window, along with some flags so all the passers by could enjoy them too. We also strung some bunting over our new garden arch.  We had a nice VE Day tea in the garden which Mum & Dad seemed to enjoy and also managed to stand at the gate and see our neighbours enjoying tea (practising social distancing, of course) on the green outside our house. It was really lovely to see everyone enjoying each other’s company. Mum & Dad enjoyed all the waves and good wishes from our neighbours.

Gaye asked her mum & her mum’s neighbour about what they remember about VE Day itself in 1945 & discovered 2 very different experiences!  Gaye’s mum was at school in Barry, South Wales, all set to sit her Higher School Certificate examinations before leaving school at 17 years old.  She remembers that the local lads dressed up as Ivy Benson & her band, whilst she & her friends dressed up as the Black & White Minstrels, all to put on a show.  No one was offended!  There was an American Army Camp behind their houses – segregated African American troops – who all joined in.  She remembers that any of the Forces who were around came & joined in the local street parties.  As for the food?  Can’t recall!  Mum’s neighbour (J), on the other hand, was back in Forest Gate, North London having been living with an ex-neighbour in Swindon due to a bomb blast in the next street which had taken the roof off the top flat that they lived in.  Her mum returned to Forest Gate at regular intervals to argue with their landlord about getting the roof back!  She must have been successful, because by February 1945 they were home & J was back in the first year of Grammar School being expected to make up all the work she had missed with no extra help!  J remembers the feeling of euphoria at the reality of ‘Hitler not chucking bombs at us‘!  She distinctly recalled the problem of the V2 rockets hitting London, as unlike the previous V1 rockets/Doddlebugs, you couldn’t hear them until they landed. “This was very frightening as it meant that some poor soul was killed.  VE Day meant that there was no more worry about this anymore.”  J commented that the street party wasn’t in her own street at all, as they were visiting an aunt & cousins, so had an impromptu party there.  She remembers the singing & dancing round the bonfire in the middle of the street.  They spent VE Night sleeping in neighbours’ or aunts’ homes… &, of course, rationing continued!

So, how were your VE 75 Day celebrations?  Don’t forget where you packed away the bunting, as there is VJ 75 Day in August to celebrate as well…….!

 

Tales of the Lockdown ….. Episode 1

         What strange times we are living in……   Due to the Covid-19 pandemic, our daily lives have totally changed.  Bears  (‘The Great Bear Hunt’ for children on their daily walks) & rainbows (to honour all those key workers, & particularly those working tirelessly throughout the NHS) appearing in windows…..  meetings, coffee mornings & events cancelled …. isolation for our ladies …  Thursday evenings at 8pm has become a community, let alone personal focal point, with people out on their doorsteps clapping to show appreciation for all those key workers in the NHS and elsewhere.

Yet life in The Ridwares WI goes on, & our ladies are keeping busy & keeping in touch with eachother….  Karen & Kate Beechey delivered daffodils to those WI ladies & other villagers in self-isolation.  Easter cup cakes followed.  All appreciated!

       We even got a special mention in ‘WI Life’, courtesy of Sophie,  Duchess of Wessex.  That is one for the history books!

Many of our ladies had been busy for ages knitting baby hats for Good Hope Hospital maternity unit –  Angela Lycett had knitted over 40 hats at the last count.  All these efforts were very much appreciated.

Pat Griffith celebrated her 80th birthday, well, differently ….  She commented, “A very strange birthday though due to the lockdown.  Our daughters had to sing happy birthday from the drive and put my presents in a pile in the hall.  Wendy came round and also sang happy birthday on the drive which was lovely and much appreciated.

Pat has also kept busy painting the garden shed: “which for me was a mammoth task, particularly the trellises.   Just need to sort out plant pots etc now. I have also made fifteen face masks for the family, a few of which are shown below.

Due to circumstances it is now considerable time since I have seen most of you so I also attach a drawing of me, with walking stick, done from memory, by my great grand daughter, which I hope will help you recognise me when we return to our monthly meetings.”  I’m sure we will Pat!

Kath Parson has been busy in her back garden – & her mum & dad are doing well with their social isolation.  Looking good Kath!

Jackie Layzell has also been busy in her garden & allotment: potatoes, parsnips, broad beans & onions have been planted.  She commented how weird it feels walking round the village & its local footpaths & hardly seeing anyone at all…  Debbie Walker has passed on details of how to access Tai Chi on line, with a new ‘routine’ beckoning for her regular class attendees.

Congratulations to Anthea and Ivan on the birth of their great granddaughter Maddison Lily; sadly they’ve not been able to see her yet but we know Anthea is looking forward to having a big cuddle.  Margaret Ford has also had some good news – she is a great grandmother again!  Her granddaughter, Lauren, has given birth to twin boys: Arlo Anthony & Leo Michael.  Mother & babies are doing well & Margaret, like Anthea, is looking forward to being with them all in person.
Karen also set everyone a mental challenge – to find as many words as we could from the letters in THE RIDWARES WOMEN’S INSTITUTE.  She commented, “Don’t know how you are getting on but I  think one member is definitely going for the record – at the last count Kath Parson had over 800 words – can you beat that?”   The challenge is on…..!!
Dot Boulton has also been gardening & getting to grips with ‘Zoom’ etc.  She commented, “Fortunately I had lots of  seedlings on the go and have been able to give some to my grandson Henry.  He is  being home schooled by his dad, so it was a nice break for them to get outside. His mom Hazel has to carry on working as she is a Veterinary Nurse, working at Stafford surgery.  She says it is very busy: thank goodness they have plenty of protective clothing. So sad that people cannot stay with the pets when they are put down as social distant rules have to be applied. Alison is working from home.  Her partner works in pharmaceuticals –  they do trials for companies.  He says that there are plenty of volunteers, so hopefully will be near to getting some results very soon.  The garden has never looked so good, mainly because we have to stay at home and are able to keep it watered. LOL. The hedgehog is back and the bird songs are at their very best.  We have had a garden Warble visit us – such a lovely sound.
As we have lots of nieces and nephews living in Cornwall, Bristol, Wales, London,Wolverhampton &  Australia,  they decided they would all communicate by Zoom – this sounded  good in theory but getting everybody together then everyone speaking at the same time was difficult. We had some fun trying.

The problems of trying to stay in touch & really being there for eachother….  Tina’s family have been keeping in touch via a weekly ‘Quiz’.  Instructions for various rounds arrive in the post & the Quiz itself is conducted via phone & internet.  Unfortunately, there is no prize for the winner  Good luck Tina!  Karen has been writing weekly letters to her father & sending him care packages to boot.  My phone bill has gone up… probably a common occurrence!

Dot, like many others, has been busy baking & trying her hand at bread making.  She passes on the following tip: “the trick is not to scatter flour on the board when you are working the dough.  Just resist the temptation. Its quite messy but gradually the dough starts to get silky gives a nice texture.”  Having managed to get hold of some flour (who would have thought that flour would be like gold dust!), I will take note!

  Of course, our experience of Lockdown so far has not always been a positive or happy one.  Dot Boulton wanted to make the following tribute to Dr. El Hawrani: ” ….. an ENT specialist at Burton Hospital,  Dr Hawrani held clinics also at Samuel Johnson. I worked as a clinic clerk  for him. One day on my way to work I stopped to give a lift to one of the nurses who worked with Dr Hawrani,  As we were chatting away in the car, I suddenly started to have a heavy nose bleed.  The nurse said that shouldn’t happen. I explained to her that it was such a nuisance, some times I would go for a walk and just trip up a little and it would start.  I was beginning to lose my confidence to go any where. She said I will have a word with Dr Hawrani to see if he can help you.  She said the same thing had happened to her father and  Dr Hawrani had cured it. I was called to the clinic and Dr Hawrani was so reassuring  and kind and worked on my nose and to this day I have never had a recurrence of the problem. I was so grateful to him.  Dr Hawrani  had climbed Everest for Charity; he told me he had suffered nose bleeds and altitude sickness  on the climb & said that young people should be made more aware of these dangers on tough climbs. When the 1st Corona Virus updates came on.  I was totally shocked  and upset to hear that Dr Hawrani  had died from the Virus.”

We also remember Anthony Ford ( Margaret’s husband & Tina’s brother ) with so much affection.  Karen commented: “Margaret was able to be with him at the end so mercifully he wasn’t on his own. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends and he will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.  He was a real character and loved talking to people and getting to know them; he enjoyed coming to afternoon teas at the village hall and regularly attended the Tai Chi classes with Margaret.  His family meant everything to him and his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Margaret and Tina are very grateful to you for your cards, messages and telephone calls, a very difficult time for the family but the knowledge that so many people held Anthony in such high esteem has been a great comfort to them.”

 Rest in Peace to all those we have loved & lost during this time.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Happy St Davids’ Day …..

with The Ridwares WI!  Over 90 local residents came to the village hall in Hill Ridware  on Thursday 5th March to celebrate St Davids Day & enjoy a Welsh Tea of homemade Bara Brith, Welsh cakes & cheese scone, accompanied by as much tea/coffee as you wanted.     The raffle, as ever, was amazing with over 40 prizes available.  There was also the WI cake & produce stall to visit, & a ‘Pre-Loved’ stall for great bargains in handbags & scarves.

A lovely atmosphere with loads of chatter & laughter.  What a wonderful way to spend an afternoon & truly bring a ‘spring’ into your step!

Out with the old, in with the new …..

The Ridwares WI never sleeps …. at least that’s what it seems!   The ladies visited Wintertons auctioneers, & had a fabulous evening – very informative.  Who knew that Winterton’s offered a ‘house clearance’ service… in addition to the valuations ….?

World Kindness Day saw the ladies distributing flower posies, hearts & stones around the village, which were very well received.  Yes, we know that ‘kindness’ is not a one day a year thing, but perhaps having a day of focusing on ‘kindness’ makes us stop & think about others…

Tinsel & Trimmings again started off the Christmas season & festivities – a great community event!

Christmas at Attingham Park was our ‘Christmas’ trip this year.  The house looked lovely decorated for Christmas – a wonderful way to spend the morning.

The afternoon was spent in Shrewsbury – much needed retail & historical therapy.

The ladies partied away at Beaudesert Golf Club, shared a ‘Secret Santa’ & danced the night away.  Good food, good company – who could ask for anything more?

And 2020?  Well, Chinese New Year was celebrated by over 20 of the ladies at The Cantonese Restaurant at The Chadwick Arms.  Again, a wonderful evening was had by all -great food, company, & service … & much laughter over the fortune cookies.  We do wonder what the future will hold for us all?

Lest We Forget …..

  Saturday , 9th November saw a number of villagers & their families meet at the village hall, Hill Ridware to offer their thanks, to reflect & to remember.  The weather was with us as the Benyon lines were repeated, silence held & wreaths laid at the foot of ‘our Tommy’.  The web of poppies symbolised the service & sacrifice of so many.  Memorial crosses were also ‘planted’ at Tommy’s feet by villagers.

  Tea/coffee & homemade cakes were shared, along with memories, by those who attended.  Nearly £200-00 was raised in donations towards the work of The Royal British Legion.  A wonderful, heart-felt way to spend a Saturday morning in, & with, our community.

Well, here in The Ridwares, we most certainly won’t forget the service & sacrifice of so many individuals, known & unknown to us, during 2 world wars & subsequent conflicts.  May they forever rest in peace.