What strange times we are living in…… Due to the Covid-19 pandemic, our daily lives have totally changed. Bears (‘The Great Bear Hunt’ for children on their daily walks) & rainbows (to honour all those key workers, & particularly those working tirelessly throughout the NHS) appearing in windows….. meetings, coffee mornings & events cancelled …. isolation for our ladies … Thursday evenings at 8pm has become a community, let alone personal focal point, with people out on their doorsteps clapping to show appreciation for all those key workers in the NHS and elsewhere.
Yet life in The Ridwares WI goes on, & our ladies are keeping busy & keeping in touch with eachother…. Karen & Kate Beechey delivered daffodils to those WI ladies & other villagers in self-isolation. Easter cup cakes followed. All appreciated!
We even got a special mention in ‘WI Life’, courtesy of Sophie, Duchess of Wessex. That is one for the history books!
Many of our ladies had been busy for ages knitting baby hats for Good Hope Hospital maternity unit – Angela Lycett had knitted over 40 hats at the last count. All these efforts were very much appreciated.
Pat Griffith celebrated her 80th birthday, well, differently …. She commented, “A very strange birthday though due to the lockdown. Our daughters had to sing happy birthday from the drive and put my presents in a pile in the hall. Wendy came round and also sang happy birthday on the drive which was lovely and much appreciated.”
Pat has also kept busy painting the garden shed: “which for me was a mammoth task, particularly the trellises. Just need to sort out plant pots etc now. I have also made fifteen face masks for the family, a few of which are shown below.
Due to circumstances it is now considerable time since I have seen most of you so I also attach a drawing of me, with walking stick, done from memory, by my great grand daughter, which I hope will help you recognise me when we return to our monthly meetings.” I’m sure we will Pat!
Kath Parson has been busy in her back garden – & her mum & dad are doing well with their social isolation. Looking good Kath!
Jackie Layzell has also been busy in her garden & allotment: potatoes, parsnips, broad beans & onions have been planted. She commented how weird it feels walking round the village & its local footpaths & hardly seeing anyone at all… Debbie Walker has passed on details of how to access Tai Chi on line, with a new ‘routine’ beckoning for her regular class attendees.
Congratulations to Anthea and Ivan on the birth of their great granddaughter Maddison Lily; sadly they’ve not been able to see her yet but we know Anthea is looking forward to having a big cuddle. Margaret Ford has also had some good news – she is a great grandmother again! Her granddaughter, Lauren, has given birth to twin boys: Arlo Anthony & Leo Michael. Mother & babies are doing well & Margaret, like Anthea, is looking forward to being with them all in person.
Karen also set everyone a mental challenge – to find as many words as we could from the letters in THE RIDWARES WOMEN’S INSTITUTE. She commented, “Don’t know how you are getting on but I think one member is definitely going for the record – at the last count Kath Parson had over 800 words – can you beat that?” The challenge is on…..!!
Dot Boulton has also been gardening & getting to grips with ‘Zoom’ etc. She commented, “Fortunately I had lots of seedlings on the go and have been able to give some to my grandson Henry. He is being home schooled by his dad, so it was a nice break for them to get outside. His mom Hazel has to carry on working as she is a Veterinary Nurse, working at Stafford surgery. She says it is very busy: thank goodness they have plenty of protective clothing. So sad that people cannot stay with the pets when they are put down as social distant rules have to be applied. Alison is working from home. Her partner works in pharmaceuticals – they do trials for companies. He says that there are plenty of volunteers, so hopefully will be near to getting some results very soon. The garden has never looked so good, mainly because we have to stay at home and are able to keep it watered. LOL. The hedgehog is back and the bird songs are at their very best. We have had a garden Warble visit us – such a lovely sound.
As we have lots of nieces and nephews living in Cornwall, Bristol, Wales, London,Wolverhampton & Australia, they decided they would all communicate by Zoom – this sounded good in theory but getting everybody together then everyone speaking at the same time was difficult. We had some fun trying.“
The problems of trying to stay in touch & really being there for eachother…. Tina’s family have been keeping in touch via a weekly ‘Quiz’. Instructions for various rounds arrive in the post & the Quiz itself is conducted via phone & internet. Unfortunately, there is no prize for the winner Good luck Tina! Karen has been writing weekly letters to her father & sending him care packages to boot. My phone bill has gone up… probably a common occurrence!
Dot, like many others, has been busy baking & trying her hand at bread making. She passes on the following tip: “the trick is not to scatter flour on the board when you are working the dough. Just resist the temptation. Its quite messy but gradually the dough starts to get silky gives a nice texture.” Having managed to get hold of some flour (who would have thought that flour would be like gold dust!), I will take note!
Of course, our experience of Lockdown so far has not always been a positive or happy one. Dot Boulton wanted to make the following tribute to Dr. El Hawrani: ” ….. an ENT specialist at Burton Hospital, Dr Hawrani held clinics also at Samuel Johnson. I worked as a clinic clerk for him. One day on my way to work I stopped to give a lift to one of the nurses who worked with Dr Hawrani, As we were chatting away in the car, I suddenly started to have a heavy nose bleed. The nurse said that shouldn’t happen. I explained to her that it was such a nuisance, some times I would go for a walk and just trip up a little and it would start. I was beginning to lose my confidence to go any where. She said I will have a word with Dr Hawrani to see if he can help you. She said the same thing had happened to her father and Dr Hawrani had cured it. I was called to the clinic and Dr Hawrani was so reassuring and kind and worked on my nose and to this day I have never had a recurrence of the problem. I was so grateful to him. Dr Hawrani had climbed Everest for Charity; he told me he had suffered nose bleeds and altitude sickness on the climb & said that young people should be made more aware of these dangers on tough climbs. When the 1st Corona Virus updates came on. I was totally shocked and upset to hear that Dr Hawrani had died from the Virus.”
We also remember Anthony Ford ( Margaret’s husband & Tina’s brother ) with so much affection. Karen commented: “Margaret was able to be with him at the end so mercifully he wasn’t on his own. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends and he will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him. He was a real character and loved talking to people and getting to know them; he enjoyed coming to afternoon teas at the village hall and regularly attended the Tai Chi classes with Margaret. His family meant everything to him and his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Margaret and Tina are very grateful to you for your cards, messages and telephone calls, a very difficult time for the family but the knowledge that so many people held Anthony in such high esteem has been a great comfort to them.”
Rest in Peace to all those we have loved & lost during this time.